Sunday, May 6, 2012

“Who’s messing around with romantic courtship?” - do we forget how to do it?

The current generation which grew up in the new technology age is in a higher risk of miscommunication and conflict, which may result in a high number of divorces, says Thom Patterson on Cnn. His article “Who’s messing around with romantic courtship?” explains how the traditional model of romantic courtship is fading. (Patterson, 2012)

Patterson gives on example which says it all: “real kisses are often replaced by cell keystrokes like KOTL.”  (Patterson, 2012)  Do you have any idea what it means – kiss on the lips. If you use this expression rather often, you should maybe think about how many kisses you would really give as there is a huge gap between an SMS or instant messaging kiss, and the real one.

Danae Matthews, as 20-year blogger, says that we jump into action too quickly. Also various TV shows, such as the Bachelor, where many women compete to get the one man, damage our perception of courtship; it presents it as a race based on performance. "If you go into your relationship thinking it's a performance, you're destined to epic fail, says Josh Levs from CNN. (Patterson, 2012)

Did Facebook kill love letters? Will the next generation realize what they are missing? Or do you want to get a advice, how to get a date in three messages? Go to see the original article on CNN: http://edition.cnn.com/2012/02/13/living/courting-love/index.html?hpt=hp_bn8.

by imtheone
Resources:
Patterson, T. (2012, February 13). Who's messing around with romantic courtship?. Retrieved from     http://edition.cnn.com/2012/02/13/living/courting-love/index.html?hpt=hp_bn8

imtheone. (Producer). (2011). Send me your love.. sms fail. [Web Graphic]. Retrieved from http://www.jokeroo.com/pictures/fail/send-me-your-love..-sms-fail.html

2 comments:

  1. At first glance this joke may seem funny. But when you think about it, it is disturbing. I mean love is an easy word nowadays,dont you think? Love is everywhere. Movies,cartoons,cards,tv commercials,food,jokes,bracelets. those 4 letters exist more than any other, but people forgot the actual meaning of LOVE. Moreover children nowadays consider love as sex or something dirty. Love is supposed to be a magical feeling, with no dirt on it. Media is messing with true feelings, in order to entertain and sell whatever they are selling. I think we should contribute some changes in our perception of love and keep it clean in our messy world today.
    very nice blog and topic!
    Hajar

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  2. Thank you Hajar! I totally agree, hope the changes will come soon.

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